By: Seidy Williams A Graced Moment is an occurrence in our lives that causes us to stop and think about the role we are called to play in the Kingdom of God. A Graced Moment can come at a major decision, an impactful(insightful/happy/sad) event or situation, or when a person feels the need to change his or her lifestyle. –Msgr. Joe Pellegrino God’s grace on the other hand, is usually defined as undeserved favor. Grace cannot be earned; it is something that is freely given. (Ephesians 2:8) I started my marriage journey around the same time I started Open Door Believer’s Chapel (ODBC), about 24 years ago. On the 9th anniversary of our marriage, the Lord blessed my womb with the child that my husband Fernando and I had been praying for, for several years. Our first 9 years of marriage were rocky. It’s like I existed without purpose. I wasn’t completely happy at home, and at church I was what some would call “a bench-warmer”. I was very shy (still kind of am), so I would mostly stay invisible. My walk with Christ was unstable so naturally, my marriage was also unstable. I now realize, our relationship was dependent upon our continued, intimate connection with Christ. Fast-forward a couple years, our marriage was now on the verge of a divorce. Satan would have loved that. I really am not sure how we got there, other than we didn’t give our all to the Lord nor to each other. I realized we had entered the marriage unprepared, clueless of God’s design: to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ and to imitate the relationship of Christ and His church. In my hopelessness and despair, I cried out to the Lord for answers and He heard my cry. He spoke to me with love and grace, in many ways through family, friends and my church community at ODBC. The first thing the Lord did was to bring back to me the words Bro. Dickie had prayed over our son Jonathan on the day of his dedication to the Lord, when he was 2 months old. These words made a resounding impact. Fernando and I had promised to train up this child in the ways of the Lord, in a godly home where we would love, honor and serve the Lord always. I was reminded that motherhood was my ministry. I was reminded of my role as a godly mother, wife and Kingdom woman. My marriage covenant was not only between two, but three: Fernando, myself AND God. That was “the moment I stopped to reflect on my role in God’s Kingdom and I had to make a major decision”. I chose Jesus Christ. God’s grace saved us. My husband and I repented and decided to fight for our marriage and fully surrender our lives to the Lord. He continued to put the right people and send the help we needed as we continued to trust Him. As I look back, I am so grateful for Bro. Dickie’s words of encouragement and love, despite our obvious failures and imperfections. Had he not allowed himself to be used by the Lord and extend his love and grace to us throughout all these years, without condemning us, we would not be here today. When I thought I was broken and unworthy; when Fernando thought his failures overcame him, there was hope in Jesus through the ministry, the teachings, the activities and the love and grace from Bro. Dickie, his wife Mrs. Loretta, and the ODBC community. Since recommitting my walk to the Lord back then, a series of happenings have contributed to where I stand today in the Lord. I suddenly wanted to be a part of His Kingdom work and be used by Him. I did not want to go back to the lifeless me. I delved into God’s Word. I still have this verse written on a paper in my Bible, which I clung to from 2 Cor 12:9. I sought the Lord in every way possible, and ODBC had a lot to offer: Sunday’s song sheets became clippings on my prayer/worship wall , I soaked in sermons and mid-week teachings; attended marriage seminars and fellowship events such as Valentine’s; Ladies’ meetings; camps; VBS, cantata; the Lord’s Supper, which is vital. Under the leadership of our Elders, I have grown to love God’s Word even more as they continually expound the Word of God. Fast-forward to the present. I continue to serve in God’s Kingdom, whether its supporting fellowship events, serving on our ladies committee or being a part of a small women’s group, that Aunt Flo leads. I seek to fulfill my Kingdom woman role. Imagine! For the 24 plus years that I have been at ODBC, half of that life I had been pretty much inactive. Thank God for His grace, for He pulled me out of that zone and placed me where I am. What’s my purpose in God’s Kingdom? To bring my Lord glory, as He alone deserves. Have things been perfect? None at all. But as I face struggles, and some have hit really hard, I make a daily choice to surrender and allow the Holy Spirit to lead me, and to rest in His peace. Difficulties and trials have brought me to Jesus’s feet and have helped me grow nearer to Him and have strengthened my faith. In those moments He has shown me His grace. I leave you with these final words of my favorite “grace” song: “But for your grace I could not be saved, but for your grace, I would go my way. I’m forever grateful that You have been faithful to me Lord, for Your amazing Grace”.